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Social Media Pet Peeves

I’m a pretty easy going person and I don’t let a lot bother me. But I do have some social media pet peeves. Who doesn’t?

The new Facebook changes. Hate them. Now, I know it’s a free service and they can do what they want and at least there’s a work around if you hate the new news feed but I am getting close to jumping ship. Google+ is looking mighty good right now. If I could just get all of my Facebook contacts over there.

Had to get that off my chest. What I really wanted to talk about were things the people who use social media do that annoy me.

1. InkCanada – ignore this one, it doesn’t apply to you. If you’re inviting me to an in person Facebook event make sure I’m at least in the same province as the event. You can imagine how ridiculous it is to be invited to something that isn’t in my province but I get ones that aren’t even in my country.

2. Friends who turn off their wall functionality.

3. A gazillion posts a day, every day, promoting your book. Keep it up and I will unfriend you.

4. Protecting your tweets. If you don’t want people reading your tweets send an email. I won’t request to follow you.

5. Using a service to verify I’m a person. I won’t click on that link either.

6. People who aren’t celebrities who have hundreds (or thousands) of followers and only follow a select group. If you have 4000+ followers and you only follow 100+ who do you think you are? I won’t follow you.

7. People who aren’t celebrities who don’t @ reply if you tweet them. I’m lucky that most of the people I tweet to do reply.

8. People who use a service to find people to follow and then auto unfollows them if you haven’t followed them back in X number of days. People are busy. They have lives, families, vacations, work. Sometimes it’s not possible to follow you back within three days. I don’t follow back until at least the fourth or fifth day to weed these ones out.

9. People who follow just to get followers. You know the ones. If you don’t follow them back they unfollow you. FYI, not everyone is going to follow you back.

10. People who aren’t celebrities who don’t follow you back. It’s just good Twitter karma to follow back. There are ways to filter tweets, mute people, if you get too many tweets in your stream.

Okay, here are some celebrities who have been known to @ reply or retweet. Keep in mind they don’t ALWAYS reply or retweet:

Jason O’Mara, Angie Harmon, Gordon Ramsay, Eric Johnson, Alyssa Milano.

Until next time…

Cindy

Read an ebook

So it’s read an ebook week. I’m late, I know because ebooks really aren’t my thing. I’m an old fashioned girl when it comes to books. I like printed books. I like to turn the pages. I like the feel of them in my hands. I like the smell of them. I like seeing them on a bookshelf.

I thought I would give an ebook a try because my friend Danielle Gavan has a few out. She’s a great writer with interesting takes on some of your favourite princesses from your favourite fairy tales. I’m reading Tarnished Tiaras right now, an ebook of short stories that answers the question – what happened to the fairy tale princesses that the fairy tales didn’t tell us? You’ll never look at fairy tale princesses the same way again. I’m liking the stories. I’ve always loved fairy tales. And I’m not minding reading it on my iPhone either. I can read in bed with the lights off while the boyfriend is sleeping. You can buy her book at Amazon, Barnes and Noble or Smashwords.

Until next time…

Cindy

Meetup, what have you done?

I loved Meetup once. Notice the past tense there. I used to be a huge fan of Meetup. I told everyone about how great it was. To all those people I’m sorry. Meetup has committed such an epic fail that organisers are leaving in droves.

Remember the post two weeks ago about website pet peeves? Meetup went all out. Not only did it fix something that wasn’t broken but it isn’t listening to the organisers, who pay dues, about just how bad the new site is. They flat out refuse to change things back to the way they were, or at least keep the new and allow organisers to use the old format instead of the new.

Rumours are flying that they are banning members for speaking out and deleting their posts. They of course say they aren’t doing that. And to be fair I’ve seen posts that are still on the site that, if the rumours were true, would have been removed. However, they are closing topics instead of allowing further discussion forcing organisers to create another thread.

I have moved my groups to GroupSpaces. Now, GroupSpaces doesn’t have everything I want. I HATE that partial email addresses are visible in a person’s public profile. I don’t like that I can’t choose the background colour for my page. I’m not thrilled with the fact that there doesn’t seem to be a way for RSVPs to show up with comments on the home page. My welcome email isn’t being sent out to new members. It’s going to be a chore to move all of my discussion topics and messages from Meetup to my group’s GroupSpaces forum. And it’s very hard to search for groups near you. GroupSpaces didn’t start out as a place to find groups near you but rather a place for groups where people already knew each other. That’s fine. They’re working on a lot of the suggestions coming from former Meetup organisers.

If you’re a writer in the Milton, Guelph, Kitchener, Action, Hamilton, Waterloo areas you should pop over to Guelph Write Now’s new home and join! We offer lively discussion about writing, some critiquing, writing exercises, a website, write ins, weekly on-line writing sprints, a short story challenge loop and coming very soon, a goals loop.

Now, I’m off to work. The GroupSpaces page is still a work in progress so tonight I’ll be tweaking that.

Until next time…

Cindy

Blog and website pet peeves

I surf the web a lot. Okay, maybe not as much as some people but I am on there checking out pages, reading blogs, looking up information quite a bit. And there are some things that just irritate me about some blogs and websites.

Layout:

A confusing layout, one that is hard to navigate, hard to find what you want. For crying out loud have a streamlined layout with the main menu navigation clearly visible. And if you do have a pleasing layout don’t change it. Why fix what’s not broken? I HATE the new Chapter’s layout. And I can’t stand the new Facebook profile page. Also not fussy on the new Twitter.

Colours:

Please, please, please, pick colours that are not only pleasing but don’t make me strain my eyes to read them. Bright colours with a funky font will guarantee I won’t be back to your website. Ditto for dark backgrounds with white or light writing. It’s too hard on my eyes. And make sure the font isn’t too small. My preference is to have black writing on a white or nearly white background. Go nuts with the rest of the site, the header, the outside background, even the sidebars to a degree. But keep the main content easy to read.

That said about bright colours and black backgrounds, there are a few that work for me, but again, the actual content is on a white (or light) background with black writing.

Karin Tabke

Melanie Atkins

Delilah Devlin

The Break-Up Diet


Comments:

Most bloggers love getting comments. And a lot of web surfers love to comment. So, some tips for you:

Allow readers to comment. If you have a blog and you’re spilling your guts about something let people comment. I’ve stopped going to blogs where all the person does is talk about stuff but won’t let people comment.

If you are moderating comments to filter out spam get a spam filter and turn off moderation. It’s annoying to comment on a post only to have the comment not actually appear until hours later. Sometimes the next day. If you’re worried about spam there are plugins you can use. If you’re worried about what someone might say, most blogs notify you that you have a new comment. Check it right away and if you don’t like it, delete it.

Make it easy for people to comment. Don’t make them have to become a registered user of the blog. Or make them have to have a Google account (Blogger people, I’m talking to you). If I try to comment on a blog and the only way I can comment is to sign in using my Google account ID I don’t leave a comment. And usually I don’t go back to the website. And yes, I do have a Google account. I shouldn’t have to use that though to post a comment. There is a place in Blogger where you can change that to allow anyone to comment.

Add a plugin so readers can be notified of future comments. It’s annoying to have to keep going back to the site to see if there are more comments. Let them get notified so they only go back when an email pops up saying someone has left another comment.

Contact:

Whether your website is a personal one or a business one have a contact page. On the contact page list all the ways people can get in touch with you. For businesses that means phone numbers, address, Twitter, Facebook, email address. For personal sites at least an email address. I went to a business site and there was no way to email the company. Sure I could call but during their business hours I’m at work. I went to a personal site because the person had on Twitter asked for guest blogs. I went with the intention of sending an email to express interest. No way to contact them through email on the site.

Of course all this is just my opinion. Some people may like the funky colours. The black background with bright lettering. The not being able to comment unless you jump through a million hoops. So, what are some of your pet peeves when it comes to blogs and websites?

Until next time…

Cindy

Not a happy neighbour

First, let me say there is a lot I like about the U.S. I have a lot of friends I adore who live there. I visit there when I can to see them. The U.S. has some great products you can’t get in Canada like Chocolately Delight Special K (Kellogs Canada, I’m still bitter with you for discontinuing it). You’ve got some great scenery. Some awesome cities. That said, I despise some of the exclusionary practices of some companies/contests. I just don’t understand WHY.

For some I get it. The Disney fellowship for screenwriters. I get you have to be a U.S. citizen to enter because if you win you will essentially be an employee. To be an employee you have to be able to legally work in the U.S. Got it. And I understand.

For others I don’t get it. Publishers that normally would publish authors from other countries suddenly opening a contest – where the prize is publication – but only allowing U.S. residents to enter.

Contests to win a walk on appearance on a TV show that is filmed in British Columbia only being open to U.S. residents just boggles my mind. You film the show in Canada but Canadians can’t enter your contest? How does that make sense?

iPhone apps that only allow you to download them if you live in the U.S. Again, if it was a local app I would understand. What would a Canadian want with an app that tells her all the hot places to go for getting a manicure in Phoenix? But an app by a bestselling author to only be available to U.S. residents makes me rethink buying his books now. He was a favourite author. Now, well, not so sure. I’m extremely disappointed.

Okay, rant over. Sorry it wasn’t actually writing related. Well it sort of was. I did mention writing. :)

Until next time…

Cindy

Gargoyles

I don’t know what it is about them but I love gargoyles. Back in the GEnie days (anyone who was a member will know what that is) there was a writer on the critique boards who was writing about a gargoyle. I always remembered that story and wondered what became of it. I remember the gargoyle and a helicopter. Or maybe it was the cartoon in the early 90s. I loved that show. I loved the Star Trek: The Next Generation voices in it too. I loved the idea of these medieval gargoyles coming alive at night to protect New York. How can you not be drawn in by the tagline? One thousand years ago superstition and the sword ruled. It was a time of darkness. It was a world of fear. It was the age of gargoyles.

Gargoyles have been around for a long time. A very long time. They can be traced back to ancient Egypt and Rome. But they are more commonly associated with the middle ages as well as gothic architecture. The gargoyle is actually the hollowed out stone carved grotesque used as a water spout. The carvings not used as a water spout are simply called grotesques. Commonly found standing guard on top of churches, they were believed to ward off evil. So how could they ward off evil? Well, they’re hideous and can frighten off almost anything. They come alive at night and can protect you while you’re sleeping. They return to their perch when the sun comes up so no one is the wiser.

I like some of the guesses for the origin of gargoyles on the Gargoyle Etymology & History page. The rainwater plumbing is practical. But some of my favourites include the idea that they were carved out of mischief, retribution for not paying the stone carver, caricatures of local townspeople.

I’m not going to go into all the history, religious and architectural. There’s way too much out there for this little post. But check out some of the links from the post is you want to know more. Looking into gargoyles has nudged my muse and got the creative juices flowing. Not that my muse needed any help of course. I already have enough to write about. But now I’m thinking there might be a gargoyle story in my future.

Well, off to get some work done.

Until next time…

Cindy

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